Amenity checks: My Noida site visit dilemma

Amenity usage on ground is totally different from brochure promises. When visiting Eldeco Aamantran, I tried to observe if kids were actually playing in the park, not just if it was there. My wife ki priority hai kids ke liye safe, usable spaces. Is the clubhouse really active, ya bas showpiece hai? This is for our 3BHK upgrade, so real daily utility matters more than fancy pictures. How do you guys verify actual amenity usage during site visits? Koi secret tips hain kya?