Gated Community corridor is overhyped for retirees

My kids have moved out, so we're selling our big house and need a smaller, manageable flat in Greater Noida. We're looking at the 'Gated Community' corridor, but honestly, everyone hypes the amenities and forgets the daily reality for older folks. The traffic is getting insane, and good hospitals or small, local markets aren't always close by. Is it just a young family's paradise, or can it genuinely work for empty nesters wanting peace and easy access? I'm worried about practicalities, not just resale. Disagree? Tell me why.