Gurgaon society security is mostly for show, not actual safety.

Just moved into Paras The Manor a couple of months back, and honestly, the reality is a bit different from what was promised. During visits, the elaborate CCTV network and visitor management system looked super impressive. But now, I see guards just waving people through without proper checks, especially at night. The visitor app is also quite buggy, sometimes notifications don't even come through. I'm worried about actual security, not just the perception. Also, parking is a mess; my allocated spot is often taken. Has anyone else faced this? Are my expectations too high for Gurgaon societies?