Gurugram society amenities are mostly for show

Okay I'll be honest — Gurugram mein property search thoda overwhelming ho raha hai. Kids have moved out, I need a manageable 2BHK. Thinking about SR Homes 5. I want to know about the actual daily life. Clubhouse facilities, are they genuinely used, ya bas show-off ke liye hain? Security systems, like visitor management aur guards, kitne effective hain? Aur elevators ki reliability aur maintenance response time kaisa hai? These small things matter a lot for us now.