Investor Signature Villa Phase 2

Been looking for 8 months now and it's getting exhausting. Last year around this time I was so confused between Investor Signature Villa Phase 2 and Supertech Neerajanil. Ultimately went with Investor Signature, got possession in March. Honestly, builder ka track record bahut dekha tha. Neerajanil ke construction delays sunke bahut darr lag gaya tha, aur ab jab andar aake dekha toh samajh aaya ki under-construction ka gamble kitna real hota hai. My friend took a flat in Neerajanil, still waiting for possession, aur builder bas dates pe dates de raha hai, no clarity. Possession status is such a big deal, I wish I'd stressed this more. Even in Investor Signature, amenities kaafi time laga setup hone mein, like the gym was promised by handover but took another month. Is this normal for new societies? Ya sirf mera hi experience aisa raha hai with builder commitments?