Is the premium for amenities actually worth it?

The whole premium for 'luxury' amenities often feels like a bait-and-switch. I'm currently in a 2BHK in Sector 34, thinking of upgrading to a 3BHK, maybe a villa. Raheja Winterwoods looked promising, but unka clubhouse daily use hota bhi hai kya? Yaar, security system kitna effective hota hai? CCTV, guard quality... is it just a checklist item after possession? Already have a home loan, so is the price jump really worth it for these promised facilities? Log bolte hain maintenance bhi high hota hai. Kya actual mein value milti hai?