Loan pre-approved, but my own home search is a maze

Shaurya Alstonia Noida dekh raha hun, completed project hai. I work in real estate but buying for myself is different, yaar. ₹30-50L range mein kaafi options hain, but Alstonia kaafi sahi lag raha paper pe. But is it genuinely good to live in daily? Ya sirf marketing hai? Amenities ka kya scene hai, swimming pool ya gym bas naam ke hain ya actual mein useful? Aur society ka vibe kaisa hai, friendly hai ya sab apne mein rehte hain? Builders jo nahi batate, wahi sunna hai. Off-the-record opinions needed!