My Gurgaon flat purchase: The amenity reality

Just moved into Adani Oyster Greens last month, possession was in March. Everyone glorifies the super-premium amenities shown in brochures, but honestly, kitna use karte ho? The grand clubhouse looks amazing, but it barely gets used. We're paying such high maintenance charges for swimming pools aur sports facilities jo mostly empty rehte hain. It's like a showpiece, not a usable daily feature. Nobody talks about the actual utility vs. the hefty cost. Plus, the investor ratio feels high, society mein woh 'community' wala feel abhi tak nahi aaya. Is it just me or is this common in Gurgaon's new projects? Disagree? Tell me why.