Post-possession reality: Amenities, maintenance, RWA

Gurugram mein property search karte time, I focused on amenities. GLS Avenue 51 mein move in karne ke baad, realise hua kitni cheezein sirf brochure mein achhi lagti hain. Ansal Valley View Estate mein friends ka bhi similar experience hai. Pool ya gym kitne log actually use karte hain? Maintenance charges bhi unexpected high lag rahe. RWA bhi abhi tak proper bana nahi hai. Kya sab societies mein yahi haal hai?