Site visited TVS Emerald Altura, but have some real questions

Been looking for a 3BHK for almost a year now, and TVS Emerald Altura is on my radar. Currently in a 2BHK near Marathahalli, thinking of upgrading. Already have a home loan, so this jump means a bigger EMI. Site visit kiya tha, project achha laga on paper, but I'm wondering about the actual daily living experience. Is it genuinely good to live in, ya sirf brochures mein achha lagta hai? Especially curious about their amenities. The clubhouse, pool sab dikhaya, but baad mein maintenance aur actual usability ka kya scene hai? Kaun se amenities are actually useful, aur kaun se bas show-off ke liye hain? Also, neighborhood quality. Around that area, schools aur hospitals kitne convenient hain? Commute ka kya haal hai for daily office trips? Is the price jump for Altura worth it for a family, ya alternatives dekhne chahiye? Bahut confusions hain.