SS One buyers: What's the real daily life like?

Honestly, finalizing SS One felt like a huge decision, but now I'm overthinking everything. We booked a 3BHK for ₹2.8 Cr a couple of months back, possession is still a while away. My wife and I are really keen on understanding the actual daily living experience once it's ready. Builders always show fancy brochures, but are the amenities like the gym or clubhouse genuinely well-maintained and usable? And how about the surrounding area? We have a young kid, so school proximity and nearby markets are critical. Is the overall vibe good for families, or is it more of a transient crowd? Just want to set realistic expectations, you know?