Upgrading for kids, need a real home

My kids' school admission is next year, and I need to finalize a home before then. We're eyeing Express Greens Phase 2 for a 3BHK. Price seems okay, but honestly, is it *actually* livable? Okay, I'll say what no one says: brochure amenities like the pool and gym often look great but are useless in reality. Are Express Greens' amenities well-maintained and *actually* used? My wife's priority is a safe, friendly society for the kids. Kaisa hai wahan ka community feel? Aur neighborhood ka kya scene hai – good schools, markets nearby? I'm worried about getting a good society, not just fancy buildings. After moving in, did it feel like a real home or just another apartment? Change my mind.