Upgrading to a 3BHK, what's real life like?

Okay I'll be honest — Earthcon Sir Syed Apartment has been on my radar, especially since my wife wants a ready-to-move place for the kids. We're upgrading to a 3BHK, and the price range for a completed project seems decent. My main concern is the actual livability factor, not just what's on paper. Jab koi project ready hota hai, toh ads mein sab kuch accha lagta hai. But real mein society ka vibe kaisa hai? Kids ke liye kitna safe hai? I'm trying to figure out the actual quality of amenities. Swimming pool ya gym dikhne mein accha hai, but maintenance kaisa hai aur kitna use hota hai? Schools aur markets kitne paas hain, like really paas, not just on Google Maps. My tip is to physically check these things multiple times. Any current residents can shed light on these ground realities? Hope this helps someone else looking into this.